Share one fetch and transcode among concurrent misses (closes #65)

Requests that missed the same variant at once each fetched and
transcoded it. They now share one call through
golang.org/x/sync/singleflight, keyed on the variant cache key. The
first request processes the variant with a context that ignores its
cancellation but keeps its deadline; the others wait for its result,
holding no connection or processing slot, and return as soon as their
own context ends. The processing request waits even then, up to its
deadline. Each request counts one miss; the processing counts its fetch
and transcode once. A panic while processing is reported through the
request's Sentry hub, when there is one, and becomes an error instead
of stopping pixad.

Model: opus-5-5

go.mod

@@ -20,6 +20,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/spf13/cobra v1.10.2
 	go.uber.org/fx v1.24.0
 	golang.org/x/crypto v0.41.0
+	golang.org/x/sync v0.19.0
 	modernc.org/sqlite v1.42.2
 )
 
@@ -134,7 +135,6 @@ require (
 	golang.org/x/image v0.34.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/net v0.43.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/oauth2 v0.30.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/sync v0.19.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/sys v0.36.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/term v0.34.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/text v0.32.0 // indirect