Remove idle host semaphores and delete .meta with its variant (closes #87)

Each upstream host's semaphore now counts the fetches holding or waiting
for one of its slots, and is removed from hostSems when the last of them
gives its slot back or stops waiting, so a long-running pixad no longer
keeps one semaphore per host it ever fetched from. The semLen test helper
reads hostSems directly, as getHostSemaphore now counts its caller.

VariantStorage.Delete removes the variant's .meta file too, a missing one
not being an error; DeleteWithMeta, which eviction called for that, is
gone.

Model: opus-5-5

TODO.md

@@ -29,6 +29,13 @@ P2: security: referer blacklist
 
 # Completed Steps
 
+- 2026-10-04 upstream host semaphores and variant `.meta` files no longer
+  outlive their use (closes #87): the fetcher counts the fetches holding or
+  waiting for a slot of each upstream host's semaphore and removes the host's
+  semaphore once none is left, so fetches from many hosts no longer leave one
+  semaphore each until restart; `VariantStorage.Delete` removes the variant's
+  `.meta` file along with it, a missing `.meta` file not being an error, and
+  `DeleteWithMeta`, which eviction called for that, is gone.
 - 2026-10-04 `README.md` matches the code (closes #74): "Storage" names the
   cache directories pixa uses (`cache/sources`, `cache/metadata`,
   `cache/variants`) and how files are named in each, and the comments in