Eviction no longer reads a whole table while requests wait on the database (closes #227)

UsageBytes now reads the new cache_usage row, which triggers on
source_content and variant_content keep up to date in the statement
that adds, removes or resizes a row. The reconciliation pass reads both
tables 1000 rows per query, sums them, and corrects the total when it
differs, unless a row changed while it summed. Source rows now get
last_accessed_at when added, so choosing source images to evict reads
that column's index instead of sorting the whole table. Stats still
sums the tables, now in pages: an existing test drops both tables and
expects that sum to fail.

Model: opus-5-5

README.md

@@ -533,12 +533,10 @@ Key settings in more detail:
 - `db_url` — the SQLite database to open; omitted, it is
   `file:<state_dir>/state.sqlite3?_pragma=journal_mode(WAL)`, which keeps the
   database in WAL mode. pixa opens one connection to it, so its own reads and
-  writes run one at a time. Requests wait while eviction runs one of its
-  queries, some of which read a whole table. pixa adds
-  `_pragma=busy_timeout(5000)` to any `db_url`, so a write that finds another
-  program writing to the file waits up to five seconds for it instead of
-  failing. WAL mode comes only from the URL: keep `_pragma=journal_mode(WAL)` in
-  one you set
+  writes run one at a time. pixa adds `_pragma=busy_timeout(5000)` to any
+  `db_url`, so a write that finds another program writing to the file waits up
+  to five seconds for it instead of failing. WAL mode comes only from the URL:
+  keep `_pragma=journal_mode(WAL)` in one you set
 - `cache_max_bytes` — disk cache size limit in bytes; `0` disables the disk
   cache entirely; omitted defaults to 75% of the sum of the free space on the
   filesystem containing `<state_dir>/cache/` and the bytes of source and