Share one fetch and transcode among concurrent misses (closes #65)

Requests that missed the same variant at once each fetched and
transcoded it. They now share one call through
golang.org/x/sync/singleflight, keyed on the variant cache key. The
first request processes the variant with a context that does not end
with its own; the others wait for its result, holding no connection or
processing slot, and return as soon as their own context ends. The
processing request waits even then, as before. Each request counts one
miss; the processing counts its fetch and transcode once. A panic
while processing becomes an error instead of stopping pixad.

Model: opus-5-5

go.mod

@@ -20,6 +20,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/spf13/cobra v1.10.2
 	go.uber.org/fx v1.24.0
 	golang.org/x/crypto v0.41.0
+	golang.org/x/sync v0.19.0
 	modernc.org/sqlite v1.42.2
 )
 
@@ -134,7 +135,6 @@ require (
 	golang.org/x/image v0.34.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/net v0.43.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/oauth2 v0.30.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/sync v0.19.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/sys v0.36.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/term v0.34.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/text v0.32.0 // indirect