Stop waiting for count writes after a request's deadline (closes #224)

TestService_Get_ReturnsByItsDeadline failed on a busy host because its
request, past its deadline, still waited for its miss count to be
written, a database write with no deadline; in pixad that write waits
for the one database connection every request shares. The hit, miss,
upstream fetch and transform counts are now each written in a goroutine
of their own, which the request waits for only until its deadline; a
count not written by then is written after it returns. Shutdown waits
for those writes within ShutdownTimeout and reports any left unfinished.
The test phase also runs go test with -parallel 4: on a busy host, as
many tests at once as there are CPUs wait so long to be scheduled that
a timed request can fail.

Model: opus-5-5

Dockerfile

@@ -32,10 +32,13 @@ RUN script/bootstrap --cgo
 COPY . .
 
 # Without -v first; on a failure, again with -v for the details, and
-# the step fails even if the second run passes.
-RUN go test -count=1 -timeout 90s -race -cover ./... || \
+# the step fails even if the second run passes. -parallel 4: by default
+# a package runs as many of its tests at once as the host has CPUs, and
+# on a busy host they then wait so long to be scheduled that a test
+# that times a request can see it return a second late.
+RUN go test -count=1 -timeout 90s -race -parallel 4 -cover ./... || \
     { echo "--- Rerunning with -v for details ---"; \
-      go test -count=1 -timeout 90s -race -v ./...; exit 1; }
+      go test -count=1 -timeout 90s -race -parallel 4 -v ./...; exit 1; }
 
 # Build stage. Nothing is wanted from the two phases above: these copies
 # make BuildKit build them first, so this stage runs only when lint and