Make the cache stats count what is cached, fetched and transcoded (closes #56)

Cache.Stats read request_cache and output_content, which nothing
writes, so TotalItems and TotalSizeBytes were always 0. They now count
source_content plus variant_content and use UsageBytes; a disabled disk
cache reports 0 for both. The upstream fetch count and bytes and the
transform count never moved: Get now passes the bytes it fetched
(including those read before a failed body read) and counts each
successful transcode. Hits, misses and these counters are written with
context.WithoutCancel, so a client disconnect or the request timeout no
longer loses them. The unused tables stay; metaCache is #70.

Model: opus-5-5

TODO.md

@@ -42,6 +42,18 @@ exhaustion
   that is sooner, never negative; an allowlisted host's URL that has an `exp`
   follows it too; `immutable` stays, as freshness now ends at the expiry;
   documented in `README.md`.
+- 2026-09-28 cache stats report real numbers (closes #56): `Cache.Stats`
+  counts the cached source images and processed variants (`source_content`
+  plus `variant_content`) and takes their size from `Cache.UsageBytes`,
+  instead of reading `request_cache` and `output_content`, which nothing
+  writes; those two tables are left in the schema; a disabled disk cache
+  reports no items and no size. A hit is counted even when the request
+  context has ended. A miss is counted after it is served or fails, also
+  when the request context has ended by then, with the bytes it read from
+  upstream, so `upstream_fetch_count` and `upstream_fetch_bytes` move,
+  including for an upstream body that fails partway or a fetched source
+  that then fails the magic byte check; `transform_count` counts each image
+  the image processor transcodes.
 - 2026-09-28 strip metadata from processed images (closes #82): every output is
   exported with govips' `StripMetadata`, so it carries no EXIF, XMP, IPTC or ICC
   profile; the image is first turned upright with `AutoRotate` (before sizes are