Wait on a busy SQLite database and turn on WAL mode (closes #198)

Requests and the eviction pass write on separate connections, and with
no busy timeout a write that met another one failed at once with
"database is locked" and was lost. internal/database now adds
_pragma=busy_timeout(5000) to every db_url, the default or one the
operator sets, so such a write waits up to five seconds. The default
db_url's _journal_mode=WAL is not a parameter the driver reads, so it
is now _pragma=journal_mode(WAL). README.md and config.example.yml say
what pixa adds to db_url.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/database/database.go

@@ -243,7 +243,17 @@ func (s *Database) DB() *sql.DB {
 }
 
 func (s *Database) connect(ctx context.Context) error {
-	dbURL := s.config.DBURL
+	// Requests and the eviction pass write on separate connections. With
+	// a busy timeout, a write that finds another one in progress waits up
+	// to five seconds for it instead of failing at once with "database is
+	// locked". The driver runs each _pragma parameter on every connection
+	// it opens.
+	separator := "?"
+	if strings.Contains(s.config.DBURL, "?") {
+		separator = "&"
+	}
+
+	dbURL := s.config.DBURL + separator + "_pragma=busy_timeout(5000)"
 
 	s.log.Info("connecting to database", "url", dbURL)