Leave out of the build context what the app's .dockerignore names (closes #274)

Docker does not apply .dockerignore to a build context sent as a tar,
so upaas sent every file in the clone. The build now reads the ignore
file as docker build does, <Dockerfile>.dockerignore next to the
Dockerfile if there is one, otherwise .dockerignore at the root, with
the ignorefile reader of moby/patternmatcher, and passes its patterns
as exclude patterns. As the docker command line does, the Dockerfile
and .dockerignore are never left out. The Dockerfile path is read as
Docker reads it, as a path inside the clone. The ignore file is read
through os.Root, so it cannot be read from outside the clone. An ignore
file that cannot be read, or a malformed pattern, fails the build.

Model: opus-5-5

go.mod

@@ -15,6 +15,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/joho/godotenv v1.5.1
 	github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3 v1.14.32
 	github.com/moby/buildkit v0.16.0
+	github.com/moby/patternmatcher v0.6.0
 	github.com/oklog/ulid/v2 v2.1.1
 	github.com/prometheus/client_golang v1.23.2
 	github.com/spf13/viper v1.21.0
@@ -60,7 +61,6 @@ require (
 	github.com/klauspost/compress v1.18.2 // indirect
 	github.com/moby/docker-image-spec v1.3.1 // indirect
 	github.com/moby/locker v1.0.1 // indirect
-	github.com/moby/patternmatcher v0.6.0 // indirect
 	github.com/moby/sys/sequential v0.6.0 // indirect
 	github.com/moby/sys/signal v0.7.1 // indirect
 	github.com/moby/sys/user v0.4.0 // indirect