Leave out of the build context what the app's .dockerignore names (closes #274)

Docker does not apply .dockerignore to a build context sent as a tar,
so upaas sent every file in the clone. The build now reads the ignore
file as docker build does, <Dockerfile>.dockerignore next to the
Dockerfile if there is one, otherwise .dockerignore at the root, with
the ignorefile reader of moby/patternmatcher, and passes its patterns
as exclude patterns. As the docker command line does, the Dockerfile
and .dockerignore are never left out. An ignore file that cannot be
read, or a malformed pattern, fails the build.

Model: opus-5-5

go.mod

@@ -15,6 +15,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/joho/godotenv v1.5.1
 	github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3 v1.14.32
 	github.com/moby/buildkit v0.16.0
+	github.com/moby/patternmatcher v0.6.0
 	github.com/oklog/ulid/v2 v2.1.1
 	github.com/prometheus/client_golang v1.23.2
 	github.com/spf13/viper v1.21.0
@@ -60,7 +61,6 @@ require (
 	github.com/klauspost/compress v1.18.2 // indirect
 	github.com/moby/docker-image-spec v1.3.1 // indirect
 	github.com/moby/locker v1.0.1 // indirect
-	github.com/moby/patternmatcher v0.6.0 // indirect
 	github.com/moby/sys/sequential v0.6.0 // indirect
 	github.com/moby/sys/signal v0.7.1 // indirect
 	github.com/moby/sys/user v0.4.0 // indirect