Leave out of the build context what the app's .dockerignore names (closes #274)

Docker does not apply .dockerignore to a build context sent as a tar,
so upaas sent every file in the clone. The build now reads the ignore
file as docker build does, <Dockerfile>.dockerignore next to the
Dockerfile if there is one, otherwise .dockerignore at the root, with
the ignorefile reader of moby/patternmatcher, and passes its patterns
as exclude patterns. As the docker command line does, the Dockerfile
and .dockerignore are never left out. The ignore file is read through
os.Root, so it cannot be read from outside the clone. An ignore file
that cannot be read, or a malformed pattern, fails the build.

Model: opus-5-5

README.md

@@ -268,6 +268,12 @@ upaas fails the deploy instead of building. A Dockerfile that uses
 `RUN --network` needs Docker Engine 23.0 or later unless its `# syntax=` line
 names Dockerfile frontend 1.3 or later, such as `docker/dockerfile:1`.
 
+The build context leaves out the files the app's ignore file names, as
+`docker build` does: `<Dockerfile>.dockerignore` next to the app's Dockerfile if
+there is one, otherwise `.dockerignore` at the root of the repository. The
+Dockerfile and `.dockerignore` are always sent, even when the ignore file names
+them.
+
 Session secrets are automatically generated on first startup and persisted to
 `$UPAAS_DATA_DIR/session.key`.