Rewrite README.md sentence by sentence for a newcomer

The old README was a specification written as one dense document:
sentences past 30 words, lists chained with commas, exceptions ahead
of the rules, and release history in the user text. This rewrite
leads with what the program is, what it is for and how to use it,
then gives a reference for the settings, each subcommand, the
database, the output formats, the progress display and the exit
codes. Non-goals come before the reference; the constraints, the
entrypoints and the build come last. Every statement was checked
against the code on next and against what the built binary prints on
a small tree. The section names the code comments cite are kept, and
five comments in main_test.go now cite Settings. TODO.md records the
step.

Model: fable-5-1

TODO.md

@@ -29,6 +29,13 @@
 
 # Completed Steps
 
+- `README.md` rewritten from scratch, sentence by sentence, as a newcomer reads
+  it. It leads with what the program is and how to use it. A reference section
+  covers every setting and every subcommand. Development and testing come last.
+  Every statement was checked against the code on `next`. Five comments in
+  `main_test.go` cite "Settings", where their rules now live (2026-10-26,
+  https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/sfdupes/issues/135)
+
 - a file or directory removed while the scan runs is not an error, in the walk
   or in the hash phase. The scan prints no line for it and does not count it as
   skipped. When the first of several hard links to a file is gone, the hash

main_test.go

@@ -393,7 +393,7 @@ func TestRunNamesRelativeDatabase(t *testing.T) {
 }
 
 func TestRunUsesDatabaseThroughSymlinkedDirectory(t *testing.T) {
-	// README §Database: the path names the file exactly. With link a
+	// README §Settings: the path names the file exactly. With link a
 	// symlink to the directory real/sub, link/../db.sqlite names
 	// real/db.sqlite, not db.sqlite beside link. Every subcommand must
 	// use that file, relative or absolute, and its first line must name
@@ -648,7 +648,7 @@ func TestRunUsageErrors(t *testing.T) {
 }
 
 func TestRunScanRejectsWorkersBelowOne(t *testing.T) {
-	// README §scan mode: --workers below 1 is a usage error reported in
+	// README §Settings: --workers below 1 is a usage error reported in
 	// one line on stderr, before the scan opens the database.
 	for _, workers := range []string{"0", "-1"} {
 		t.Run(workers, func(t *testing.T) {
@@ -686,8 +686,8 @@ func TestRunScanRejectsWorkersBelowOne(t *testing.T) {
 func TestRunHelp(t *testing.T) {
 	t.Parallel()
 
-	// README §Subcommands: help goes to stderr, exits 0, and leaves
-	// stdout empty.
+	// README §Settings: help goes to stderr, exits 0, and leaves stdout
+	// empty.
 	cases := [][]string{{"--help"}, {"-h"}, {cmdScan, "--help"}}
 
 	for _, args := range cases {
@@ -713,8 +713,8 @@ func TestRunHelp(t *testing.T) {
 func TestRunVersion(t *testing.T) {
 	t.Parallel()
 
-	// README §Subcommands: the version is one line on stdout, with
-	// nothing on stderr, and exits 0.
+	// README §Settings: the version is one line on stdout, with nothing
+	// on stderr, and exits 0.
 	info, _ := debug.ReadBuildInfo()
 
 	for _, arg := range []string{"--version", "-v"} {
@@ -1122,7 +1122,7 @@ func assertRunsUseDatabase(t *testing.T, dir, name string) {
 }
 
 func TestRunDatabasePathUsedAsGiven(t *testing.T) {
-	// README §Database: the path names the database file exactly. In
+	// README §Settings: the path names the database file exactly. In
 	// SQLite's connection string an unescaped ? or # would end the file
 	// name and % would start an escape, and a path starting with //
 	// could be read as a host name. %25 is a valid escape, so unescaped