Keep each test database when the pool replaces its connection (closes #209)

SQLite deletes a shared in-memory database when its last connection
closes. A query cancelled while it runs makes the pool close its
connection, so a test could lose all its tables and rows at random.

The new package internal/dbtest has NewTestDatabaseURL. It returns the
URL of a new in-memory database with a random name and holds one
connection to it open until the test ends. The db, handlers,
ircserver, server and service tests take their database URL from it.
The test-support lint rule keeps the package out of the server binary.

A new test cancels a query on such a database, checks with a TEMP
table that the connection was replaced, and checks that a row is
still there.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/db/queries_test.go

@@ -13,7 +13,7 @@ import (
 func setupTestDB(t *testing.T) *db.Database {
 	t.Helper()
 
-	database, err := db.NewTestDatabase()
+	database, err := db.NewTestDatabase(t)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatal(err)
 	}