Keep each test database when the pool replaces its connection (closes #209)

SQLite deletes a shared in-memory database when its last connection
closes. A query cancelled while it runs makes the pool close its
connection, so a test could lose all its tables and rows at random.

The new package internal/dbtest has NewTestDatabaseURL. It returns the
URL of a new in-memory database with a random name and holds one
connection to it open until the test ends. The db, handlers,
ircserver, server and service tests take their database URL from it.
The test-support lint rule keeps the package out of the server binary.

A new test cancels a query on such a database, checks with a TEMP
table that the connection was replaced, and checks that a row is
still there.

Model: opus-5-5

.golangci.yml

@@ -61,6 +61,10 @@ linters:
               desc: >-
                 Test-support code belongs in test files and in packages whose
                 directory name ends in test, not in the shipped binary.
+            - pkg: sneak.berlin/go/neoirc/internal/dbtest
+              desc: >-
+                Test-support code belongs in test files and in packages whose
+                directory name ends in test, not in the shipped binary.
     # Only decisions already recorded in the Go package defaults are
     # listed here. Every entry matches the module path exactly.
     gomodguard_v2: