Default the manifest to index.mf and keep it out of its own listing (closes #100)

mfer gen now writes index.mf instead of .index.mf, the name fetch
requests and the README calls the standard filename. Given a
directory, check, freshen, list and export look only for index.mf;
.index.mf is no longer recognized. Because index.mf is not hidden, gen
and freshen now leave out of their own listing both the manifest they
write and a temp file an interrupted run left beside it, by file
identity (os.SameFile), so each is recognized however its path is
spelled, while an ordinary file of the same name elsewhere in the tree
is still listed.

Model: opus-5-5

README.md

@@ -36,12 +36,12 @@ Generate a manifest for a directory tree, verify it later, and fetch a published
 tree by URL:
 
 ```sh
-# Write .index.mf, a manifest of the files under the current directory.
+# Write index.mf, a manifest of the files under the current directory.
 bin/mfer gen .
 
 # Verify the files on disk against the manifest. Exits nonzero if any file
 # is missing or corrupted.
-bin/mfer check .index.mf
+bin/mfer check index.mf
 
 # Download and cryptographically verify a tree published over HTTP: mfer
 # fetches <url>/index.mf, then downloads every file it lists.