Default the manifest to index.mf and keep it out of its own listing (closes #100)

mfer gen now writes index.mf instead of .index.mf, the name fetch
requests and the README calls the standard filename. Given a
directory, check, freshen, list and export look only for index.mf;
.index.mf is no longer recognized. Because index.mf is not hidden, gen
and freshen leave out of their own listing the manifest they write and
a temp file an interrupted run left beside it, matched by file
identity (os.SameFile) however the path is spelled. The scanner takes
these as a plain ExcludePaths list; manifestTempPath alone names the
temp file, for both writes, both skips and the tests.

Model: opus-5-5

README.md

@@ -36,12 +36,12 @@ Generate a manifest for a directory tree, verify it later, and fetch a published
 tree by URL:
 
 ```sh
-# Write .index.mf, a manifest of the files under the current directory.
+# Write index.mf, a manifest of the files under the current directory.
 bin/mfer gen .
 
 # Verify the files on disk against the manifest. Exits nonzero if any file
 # is missing or corrupted.
-bin/mfer check .index.mf
+bin/mfer check index.mf
 
 # Download and cryptographically verify a tree published over HTTP: mfer
 # fetches <url>/index.mf, then downloads every file it lists.