test: make live DNS tests robust instead of gated (closes #93)

The resolver's live-DNS tests failed nondeterministically, a different
subset each run. Three structural causes, all test-side:

- Burst fan-out. Every test in the package is parallel and the build
  hosts have many cores, so all ~35 iterative resolutions started at
  the same instant and, because queryServers walks rootServerList() in
  fixed order, hit the same root server within milliseconds. Root
  servers rate-limit that.
- No retry anywhere. One dropped UDP packet in a delegation chain
  failed a test outright.
- Unanimity assertions. TestQueryAllNameservers_AllReturnOK and
  _NXDomainFromAllNS required every one of a domain's nameservers to
  answer, with no tolerance for one being slow.

New internal/resolver/livedns_test.go addresses each: a package-wide
gate bounds how many live resolutions are in flight at once, every
live operation gets three attempts with exponential backoff and its
own deadline, and multi-nameserver assertions now need a strict
majority rather than unanimity. The retry predicate is deliberately
transport-level -- "did a nameserver answer at all" -- never the
assertion under test, so a resolver that answers incorrectly still
fails on the first attempt. A nameserver that stays silent is
tolerated; one that answers wrongly is not.

livedns_harness_test.go tests that machinery directly: quorum
arithmetic, status counting, the gate's concurrency bound, per-attempt
deadlines, and recovery from a transient failure. It touches no DNS.

Nothing is mocked, faked, stubbed, recorded, skipped or build-tagged,
and production resolver behaviour is unchanged.

Test caps move to the new org-wide values ruled at prompts issue 41:
60s hard cap, 20s target, 90s -timeout backstop. REPO_POLICIES.md is
re-vendored byte-identical from sneak/prompts rather than hand-edited,
which also picks up the golangci-lint paragraph this copy had drifted
behind on. TESTING.md's stale 30-second target follows to 60.

#93

internal/resolver/livedns_harness_test.go

@@ -0,0 +1,162 @@
+package resolver_test
+
+import (
+	"context"
+	"sync"
+	"testing"
+	"time"
+
+	"github.com/stretchr/testify/assert"
+
+	"sneak.berlin/go/dnswatcher/internal/resolver"
+)
+
+// Tests for the live-DNS harness in livedns_test.go itself. These
+// exercise pure logic and the retry/concurrency plumbing; they
+// perform no DNS resolution of any kind, so they neither mock DNS
+// nor depend on it.
+
+func TestLiveQuorumIsStrictMajority(t *testing.T) {
+	t.Parallel()
+
+	cases := map[int]int{
+		0:  1,
+		1:  1,
+		2:  2,
+		3:  2,
+		4:  3,
+		5:  3,
+		13: 7,
+	}
+
+	for total, want := range cases {
+		assert.Equal(
+			t, want, liveQuorum(total),
+			"liveQuorum(%d)", total,
+		)
+	}
+}
+
+func TestStatusCountingIgnoresSilentNameservers(t *testing.T) {
+	t.Parallel()
+
+	results := map[string]*resolver.NameserverResponse{
+		"ns1.example.": {
+			Nameserver: "ns1.example.",
+			Status:     resolver.StatusOK,
+		},
+		"ns2.example.": {
+			Nameserver: "ns2.example.",
+			Status:     resolver.StatusOK,
+		},
+		"ns3.example.": {
+			Nameserver: "ns3.example.",
+			Status:     resolver.StatusTimeout,
+		},
+		"ns4.example.": {
+			Nameserver: "ns4.example.",
+			Status:     resolver.StatusError,
+		},
+	}
+
+	assert.Equal(
+		t, 2, countStatus(results, resolver.StatusOK),
+	)
+	assert.Equal(
+		t, 0, countStatus(results, resolver.StatusNXDomain),
+	)
+
+	// Two of four answered, which is short of the quorum of
+	// three: this is the state that triggers a retry rather
+	// than an assertion failure.
+	assert.Equal(t, 2, answeredCount(results))
+	assert.Less(t, answeredCount(results), liveQuorum(len(results)))
+
+	assert.Equal(
+		t,
+		"ns1.example.=ok ns2.example.=ok "+
+			"ns3.example.=timeout ns4.example.=error",
+		describeStatuses(results),
+	)
+}
+
+func TestRetryLiveRecoversFromTransientFailure(t *testing.T) {
+	t.Parallel()
+
+	const wantAttempts = 2
+
+	attempts := 0
+
+	retryLive(t, "transient", func(_ context.Context) error {
+		attempts++
+
+		if attempts < wantAttempts {
+			return errLiveNoAnswer
+		}
+
+		return nil
+	})
+
+	assert.Equal(t, wantAttempts, attempts)
+}
+
+func TestRetryLiveGivesEachAttemptADeadline(t *testing.T) {
+	t.Parallel()
+
+	retryLive(t, "deadline", func(ctx context.Context) error {
+		deadline, ok := ctx.Deadline()
+		assert.True(t, ok, "attempt should carry a deadline")
+		assert.LessOrEqual(
+			t, time.Until(deadline), liveAttemptTimeout,
+		)
+
+		return nil
+	})
+}
+
+func TestRunLiveBoundsConcurrency(t *testing.T) {
+	t.Parallel()
+
+	const workers = 24
+
+	var (
+		mu       sync.Mutex
+		wg       sync.WaitGroup
+		inFlight int
+		maxSeen  int
+	)
+
+	wg.Add(workers)
+
+	for range workers {
+		go func() {
+			defer wg.Done()
+
+			_ = runLive(func(_ context.Context) error {
+				mu.Lock()
+				inFlight++
+
+				if inFlight > maxSeen {
+					maxSeen = inFlight
+				}
+				mu.Unlock()
+
+				time.Sleep(time.Millisecond)
+
+				mu.Lock()
+				inFlight--
+				mu.Unlock()
+
+				return nil
+			})
+		}()
+	}
+
+	wg.Wait()
+
+	assert.Positive(t, maxSeen)
+	assert.LessOrEqual(
+		t, maxSeen, liveConcurrency,
+		"live queries must stay under the package-wide gate",
+	)
+}