Keep make test under 2 GB of memory (closes #344)

Every test that starts a database hashed the bootstrap admin password
with Argon2id at 64 MB, which under -race holds about 150 MB per hash,
across dozens of parallel tests. HashPassword now hashes at 1 MB when
testing.Testing() reports a test binary, so every test package gets
the lower cost and a binary built by go build never does. One test
still hashes and verifies through HashPassword at the shipped
parameters, which are unchanged.

script/test also runs at most four packages and eight parallel tests
at once: unbounded, a many-core host linked and ran every test binary
together.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/database/export_test.go

@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@ import (
 	"io"
 	"log/slog"
 	"os"
+	"testing"
 	"time"
 
 	"go.uber.org/fx"
@@ -79,3 +80,14 @@ func (d *Database) ExportSetBannerOut(w io.Writer) {
 func DummyPasswordHashForTest() string {
 	return dummyPasswordHash()
 }
+
+// HashAtShippedCostForTest makes HashPassword hash at the shipped
+// memory cost until t ends. t must not run in parallel with other
+// tests, which would hash at that cost alongside it.
+func HashAtShippedCostForTest(t *testing.T) {
+	t.Helper()
+
+	hashAtShippedCostInTest = true
+
+	t.Cleanup(func() { hashAtShippedCostInTest = false })
+}