Stop target credentials leaking into event databases (closes #206)

A Delivery carries its Event and Target structs in memory for the
delivery engine, so GORM's automatic association save upserted the
whole target row -- config included, which holds destination URLs
and bearer credentials -- into the per-webhook event database with
an empty webhook_id. Event databases are the files most likely to be
backed up or handed to someone else, so they shipped the credentials
with them.

Register a create and update callback on every per-webhook
connection that omits associations, rather than fixing the one call
site: it covers writes inside a transaction and write paths added
later. Sweep any rows already written, before the migration on each
open, so it is idempotent and a no-op on a database with no targets
table.

Encryption of target config at rest in webhooker.db is deliberately
not part of this: it is tracked separately.

README.md

@@ -413,14 +413,16 @@ backups at rest and restrict who can read them.
 - `events-{uuid}.db` and `archive-{uuid}.db` hold the **full payload
   body and headers** of every event as received, including whatever the
   sending service put in them — tokens, signatures, personal data.
-- Until
-  [issue #206](https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/webhooker/issues/206) is fixed,
-  the event databases **also contain target credentials**: a GORM
-  association upsert on the delivery and retry write path copies
-  `targets` rows, `config` included, into the per-webhook database. For
-  a Slack target the `webhookUrl` *is* the bearer credential, and an
-  `http` target's URL can embed userinfo. Handing someone an
-  `events-*.db` today hands them live delivery destinations.
+- Event databases written before
+  [issue #206](https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/webhooker/issues/206) was fixed
+  **also contain target credentials**: a GORM association upsert on the
+  delivery and retry write path copied `targets` rows, `config`
+  included, into the per-webhook database. For a Slack target the
+  `webhookUrl` *is* the bearer credential, and an `http` target's URL
+  can embed userinfo. This version never writes those rows, and clears
+  any it finds the first time it opens the file — but a backup taken
+  from an older build, or of a file this version has not opened yet,
+  still hands over live delivery destinations.
 - `webhooker.db` stores target config **unencrypted**, tracked at
   [issue #212](https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/webhooker/issues/212), next to
   the session encryption key and the Argon2id password hashes.