Show a target paused by its circuit breaker (closes #385)

A target whose circuit breaker had tripped still showed as Active, and its deliveries sat at a bare "retrying" with no attempts. Its row on the webhook page now says deliveries are paused after repeated failures and until when the cooldown ends, adding that one waiting delivery is then sent to test the target; while half-open it says deliveries are held while one tests it, with no time. Waiting deliveries show "next try no earlier than" the later of the cooldown and their own backoff, with the date when not today. The engine gains one read of a breaker's state and remaining cooldown under one lock, and shares the backoff formula.

Model: opus-5-5

templates/event_detail.html

@@ -69,7 +69,7 @@
                 <div class="flex flex-wrap items-center justify-between gap-3">
                     <span class="text-sm text-gray-700">{{.Target.DisplayName}}</span>
                     <span class="flex flex-wrap items-center gap-3">
-                        <span class="text-xs {{if eq .Status "delivered"}}text-green-600{{else if eq .Status "failed"}}text-red-600{{else if eq .Status "retrying"}}text-yellow-600{{else}}text-gray-400{{end}}">{{.Status}}</span>
+                        <span class="text-xs {{if eq .Status "delivered"}}text-green-600{{else if eq .Status "failed"}}text-red-600{{else if eq .Status "retrying"}}text-yellow-600{{else}}text-gray-400{{end}}">{{with .Paused}}waiting: target paused after repeated failures, next try no earlier than {{.Until}} ({{.Relative}}){{else}}{{.Status}}{{end}}</span>
                         <span class="text-xs text-gray-400">{{.AttemptCount}} attempt{{if ne .AttemptCount 1}}s{{end}}</span>
                     </span>
                 </div>