Lock DATA_DIR against a second instance (closes #201)

Nothing stopped two processes opening the same DATA_DIR. Both open the
same per-webhook databases, both run delivery recovery over the same
rows, and both deliver: every pending delivery reaches the destination
twice, from nothing worse than an overlapping deploy.

The entry point now takes an exclusive advisory flock(2) on
{DATA_DIR}/webhooker.lock before anything opens a database, and holds it
for the process lifetime. A second process pointed at the same directory
prints a message naming that directory and exits 1. The lock is the
kernel's, not the file's, so a process killed with SIGKILL leaves a lock
file that blocks nothing -- which is what a pidfile would get wrong. The
file is never unlinked: doing so would let the next process lock a fresh
inode while a third still held the old one.

Acquisition lives in internal/datadir rather than in the server's fx
graph, so any entry point touching DATA_DIR takes it the same way, and
ErrLocked lets a caller tell a live deployment from any other failure.
config.DataDir() resolves DATA_DIR once, for both the lock and Config,
so the two cannot disagree.

Regression coverage: a real second process is refused, and a restart
after kill -9 succeeds with the stale lock file in place.

github.com/gofrs/flock carries the lock; its own module minimums pull
testify to v1.11.1 and golang.org/x/sys to v0.37.0.

go.sum

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