Refuse a backup destination an unplugged volume left empty (closes #239)

Every backup now writes vaultik-destination.txt at the destination
root. While the local index holds snapshots, a destination without it
is not present: snapshot create refuses before writing, prune and
snapshot purge fail, and snapshot list and snapshot remove warn.
remote nuke deletes the marker last. The file:// backend no longer
creates its destination directory and checks for it on every write;
that protects a directory on a removable volume, not the mount point
itself.

Tests back up into existing directories; fixtures standing for a
written destination carry the marker.

Judgement call: the marker is rewritten on every backup.
Deviation: for the complexity limit, snapshot name selection left CreateSnapshot and the --force/--json test moved into confirmRemoveSnapshot, both unchanged.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/vaultik/new_chunk_size_test.go

@@ -39,7 +39,7 @@ func TestNewChunkSizeOfChangedFileStaysFixed(t *testing.T) {
 
 	appendRandomBytes(t, fs, files, changedPath, appendedFileSize)
 
-	store, err := storage.NewFileStorer(t.TempDir())
+	store, err := storage.NewFileStorer(filepath.Join(tempDir, "remote"))
 	require.NoError(t, err)
 
 	db, err := database.New(ctx, dbPath)