VACUUM snapshot metadata through the sqlite driver, not a CLI (closes #120)

snapshot create vacuumed the exported metadata database by shelling out
to a sqlite3 binary, so a backup failed at the very end on any host
without that CLI. vacuumDatabase now opens the database with the
modernc.org/sqlite driver and runs VACUUM through it, outside any
transaction; internal/snapshot no longer imports os/exec. The database
opens in WAL mode, so the close after VACUUM checkpoints the rewrite
into the main file that is compressed and uploaded. A new test deletes
marked rows, vacuums, and asserts the file shrank and no longer holds
the deleted bytes. script/bootstrap and the Dockerfile stop installing
the CLI in both the test-build and the shipped runtime stage, so the
image no longer carries the dependency this change removes.

Model: opus-4-8

docs/DATAMODEL.md

@@ -192,7 +192,7 @@ Tracks blob upload metrics.
 After a snapshot is completed:
 1. Copy database to temporary file
 2. Clean temporary database to contain only current snapshot data
-3. Export to SQL dump using sqlite3
+3. VACUUM the trimmed database so deleted rows leave no pages behind
 4. Compress with zstd and encrypt with age
 5. Upload to S3 as `metadata/{snapshot-id}/db.zst.age`
 6. Generate blob manifest and upload as `metadata/{snapshot-id}/manifest.json.zst`