Correct doc and help sentences that are false about the code (closes #233)

A blob is written whole to a temporary file and uploaded once finished,
not streamed to storage. The README, ARCHITECTURE.md and
config.example.yml now say a backup needs free temporary space for each
blob (twice that for an rclone destination that cannot stream uploads)
and for the metadata export's copies of the local index, in $TMPDIR, or
partly in /var/tmp when TMPDIR is unset. Also corrected: the snapshot ID
format, what restore reads and how incomplete snapshots are removed in
docs/DATAMODEL.md, what source_path holds, the index_path default, the
config search order in the snapshot create help, what snapshot remove
cleans up in the prune help, how the release installs Go, and the
script/release and script/fmt-check comments.

Model: opus-5-5

ARCHITECTURE.md

@@ -54,10 +54,12 @@ The database tracks five primary entities and their relationships:
 
 #### File (`database.File`)
 Represents a file, directory, or symlink in the backup system. Stores metadata needed for restoration:
-- Path, source_path (for restore path stripping), mtime
+- Path, mtime
 - Size, mode, ownership (uid, gid)
 - Symlink target (if applicable)
 
+It also stores `source_path`, the source directory the scan found it under, made absolute and with symlinks resolved. Restore does not read it.
+
 #### Chunk (`database.Chunk`)
 A content-addressed unit of data. Files are split into variable-size chunks using the FastCDC algorithm:
 - `ChunkHash`: SHA256 hash of chunk content (primary key)
@@ -82,9 +84,11 @@ The final storage unit uploaded to S3. Contains many compressed and encrypted ch
 Blob creation process:
 1. Chunks are accumulated (up to MaxBlobSize, typically 10GB)
 2. As each chunk is added, its uncompressed bytes are fed to a running SHA-256
-3. Concurrently, the same bytes are compressed with zstd, then encrypted with age (recipients configured in config), and streamed to storage
+3. Concurrently, the same bytes are compressed with zstd, then encrypted with age (recipients configured in config), and written to a temporary file
 4. On finalize, the blob's name is the double SHA-256 of the uncompressed contents — `hex(SHA256(SHA256(...)))` — not a hash of the compressed, encrypted bytes
-5. Uploaded to `blobs/{hash[0:2]}/{hash[2:4]}/{hash}`
+5. The finished file is uploaded to `blobs/{hash[0:2]}/{hash[2:4]}/{hash}` and then deleted
+
+A backup needs free temporary space, because each blob is written whole to a temporary file before it is uploaded (up to about `blob_size_limit`; an rclone destination that cannot stream uploads needs about twice that) and the metadata export writes copies of the local index. Temporary files go to `$TMPDIR` (default `/tmp`); with `TMPDIR` unset, SQLite writes one of those copies to `/var/tmp`.
 
 #### BlobChunk (`database.BlobChunk`)
 Maps chunks to their position within blobs: