Skip vaultik's own index and PID file in a backup (closes #421)

The default config backs up the home directory, which holds vaultik's local index and PID file, so a backup stored a torn copy of the index it was writing. The scan now skips the index, its SQLite side files and the PID file whatever the config says, including when index_path or its directory is a symlink. database purge removes the same list of index files.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/database/module.go

@@ -20,6 +20,17 @@ const indexDirPerm = 0o700
 // backed-up path and chunk hash and must stay private.
 const indexFilePerm = 0o600
 
+// IndexFiles returns the path of the index at indexPath and the paths of
+// the side files SQLite keeps beside it while it writes.
+func IndexFiles(indexPath string) []string {
+	return []string{
+		indexPath,
+		indexPath + "-wal",
+		indexPath + "-shm",
+		indexPath + "-journal",
+	}
+}
+
 // ensureIndexFileMode makes the index file owner-only before the SQLite
 // driver opens it: it creates the file 0600 if absent, or chmods an existing
 // one to 0600. Doing this first matters because SQLite creates its -wal and