Keep unreferenced blobs newer than prune_grace_period (closes #387)

A backup uploads its blobs before the manifest that lists them, and the
process lock covers one user on one machine, so a prune from another host
or user sharing the destination deleted a running backup's blobs.

Prune now deletes an unreferenced blob only once its listed time is older
than the new config key prune_grace_period (default 24h; a negative value
is refused). A newer blob, or one listed with no time, is kept and counted
(blobs_too_new). A backup uploads a blob already on the destination again
instead of skipping it, so it gets a fresh time. The rclone backend takes
each object's time from the listing (use_server_modtime).

Cost: after database delete, the next backup uploads all its data again.
Side effect: a rebuilt blob replaces the stored copy; if compression_level
or the recipients changed since, older snapshots listing it fail verify.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/s3/client.go

@@ -8,6 +8,7 @@ import (
 	"io"
 	"strings"
 	"sync/atomic"
+	"time"
 
 	"github.com/aws/aws-sdk-go-v2/aws"
 	"github.com/aws/aws-sdk-go-v2/config"
@@ -302,7 +303,10 @@ func IsNotFound(err error) bool {
 type ObjectInfo struct {
 	Key  string
 	Size int64
-	Err  error
+	// ModTime is the object's LastModified time. Only ListObjectsStream
+	// sets it.
+	ModTime time.Time
+	Err     error
 }
 
 // ListObjectsStream lists objects with the given prefix and returns a channel.
@@ -343,8 +347,9 @@ func (c *Client) ListObjectsStream(
 					}
 
 					ch <- ObjectInfo{
-						Key:  key,
-						Size: *obj.Size,
+						Key:     key,
+						Size:    *obj.Size,
+						ModTime: aws.ToTime(obj.LastModified),
 					}
 				}
 			}