Keep unreferenced blobs newer than prune_grace_period (closes #387)

A backup uploads its blobs before the manifest that lists them, and the
process lock covers one user on one machine, so a prune from another host
or user sharing the destination deleted a running backup's blobs.

Prune now deletes an unreferenced blob only once its listed time is older
than the new config key prune_grace_period (default 24h; a negative value
is refused). A newer blob, or one listed with no time, is kept and counted
(blobs_too_new). A backup uploads a blob already on the destination again
instead of skipping it, so it gets a fresh time. The rclone backend takes
each object's time from the listing (use_server_modtime).

Cost: after database delete, the next backup uploads all its data again.
Side effect: a rebuilt blob replaces the stored copy; if compression_level
or the recipients changed since, older snapshots listing it fail verify.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/database/blobs.go

@@ -155,9 +155,7 @@ func (r *BlobRepository) UpdateFinished(
 }
 
 // UpdateUploaded marks a blob as uploaded and records the size of the
-// stored object as its compressed size. That size can differ from the
-// local copy's when an identical blob was already stored with another
-// compression level or other recipients.
+// stored object as its compressed size.
 func (r *BlobRepository) UpdateUploaded(
 	ctx context.Context, tx *sql.Tx, id string, storedSize int64,
 ) error {