Keep unreferenced blobs newer than prune_grace_period (closes #387)

A backup uploads its blobs before the manifest that lists them, and the
process lock covers one user on one machine, so a prune from another host
or user sharing the destination deleted a running backup's blobs.

Prune now deletes an unreferenced blob only once its listed time is older
than the new config key prune_grace_period (default 24h; a negative value
is refused). A newer blob, or one listed with no time, is kept and counted
(blobs_too_new). A backup uploads a blob already on the destination again
instead of skipping it, so it gets a fresh time. The rclone backend takes
each object's time from the listing (use_server_modtime).

Cost: after database delete, the next backup uploads all its data again.
Side effect: a rebuilt blob replaces the stored copy; if compression_level
or the recipients changed since, older snapshots listing it fail verify.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/storage/rclone.go

@@ -53,6 +53,14 @@ func NewRcloneStorer(ctx context.Context, remote, path string) (*RcloneStorer, e
 		rclonePath += path
 	}
 
+	// On S3, Swift and some other remotes rclone keeps a time of its own in
+	// each object's metadata, which costs one request per object to read.
+	// rclone's use_server_modtime setting makes ModTime the time the
+	// listing gives instead: when the object was stored, which is what
+	// prune compares with prune_grace_period.
+	ctx, ci := fs.AddConfig(ctx)
+	ci.UseServerModTime = true
+
 	// Create the rclone filesystem
 	fsys, err := fs.NewFs(ctx, rclonePath)
 	if err != nil {
@@ -211,8 +219,9 @@ func (r *RcloneStorer) ListStream(
 
 			if prefix == "" || strings.HasPrefix(key, prefix) {
 				ch <- ObjectInfo{
-					Key:  key,
-					Size: obj.Size(),
+					Key:     key,
+					Size:    obj.Size(),
+					ModTime: obj.ModTime(ctx),
 				}
 			}
 		})