Keep unreferenced blobs newer than prune_grace_period (closes #387)

A backup uploads its blobs before the manifest that lists them, and the
process lock covers one user on one machine, so a prune from another host
or user sharing the destination deleted a running backup's blobs.

Prune now deletes an unreferenced blob only once its listed time is older
than the new config key prune_grace_period (default 24h; a negative value
is refused). A newer blob, or one listed with no time, is kept and counted
(blobs_too_new). A backup uploads a blob already on the destination again
instead of skipping it, so it gets a fresh time. The rclone backend takes
each object's time from the listing (use_server_modtime).

Cost: after database delete, the next backup uploads all its data again.
Side effect: a rebuilt blob replaces the stored copy; if compression_level
or the recipients changed since, older snapshots listing it fail verify.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/cli/prune.go

@@ -20,7 +20,10 @@ Local cleanup drops incomplete snapshots and any files, chunks, or
 blobs no longer referenced by a completed snapshot. Remote cleanup
 scans every snapshot manifest in the destination store, builds the
 set of still-referenced blob hashes, and deletes any blob not in that
-set.
+set that is older than prune_grace_period (default 24h). A newer one
+is kept: it may belong to a backup still running, on this host or
+another sharing the destination store, that has not yet uploaded its
+manifest.
 
 Snapshot create --prune runs the same cleanup automatically; this
 command is the manual entry point for the same work (e.g. after a