Report blobs shallow verify could not check apart from missing ones (closes #318)

Shallow snapshot verify counted every error from checking a blob or the
encrypted database as "missing" and printed the error nowhere, so a
permission error or an S3 403 read as data loss. Now only a not-found
answer from storage counts as missing. Any other error is reported as
could not be checked, with the error storage returned, in the text
report and under --json (the new unchecked list and
database_check_error field), and the run fails. Under --quiet, which
drops the report, each of those errors is logged as a warning on
stderr.

The database check moved into its own small function because the verify
function was at the linter's length limit.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/vaultik/destination_validation_test.go

@@ -161,13 +161,14 @@ func TestVerifyManifestBlobsRejectsShortHash(t *testing.T) {
 		Blobs: []snapshot.BlobInfo{{Hash: "abc", CompressedSize: 1}},
 	}
 
-	verified, missing, mismatched, missingSize, err :=
+	verified, missing, mismatched, missingSize, unchecked, err :=
 		v.verifyManifestBlobs(manifest, &VerifyOptions{JSON: true})
 	require.ErrorIs(t, err, errInvalidBlobHash)
 	require.Zero(t, verified)
 	require.Zero(t, missing)
 	require.Zero(t, mismatched)
 	require.Zero(t, missingSize)
+	require.Empty(t, unchecked)
 }
 
 // TestVerifyBlobChunksRejectsNegativeLength proves a blob_chunks row with a