Add exclude patterns, snapshot prune, and other improvements

- Implement exclude patterns with anchored pattern support:
  - Patterns starting with / only match from root of source dir
  - Unanchored patterns match anywhere in path
  - Support for glob patterns (*.log, .*, **/*.pack)
  - Directory patterns skip entire subtrees
  - Add gobwas/glob dependency for pattern matching
  - Add 16 comprehensive tests for exclude functionality

- Add snapshot prune command to clean orphaned data:
  - Removes incomplete snapshots from database
  - Cleans orphaned files, chunks, and blobs
  - Runs automatically at backup start for consistency

- Add snapshot remove command for deleting snapshots

- Add VAULTIK_AGE_SECRET_KEY environment variable support

- Fix duplicate fx module provider in restore command

- Change snapshot ID format to hostname_YYYY-MM-DDTHH:MM:SSZ

go.mod

@@ -68,6 +68,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/go-openapi/jsonpointer v0.21.0 // indirect
 	github.com/go-openapi/jsonreference v0.20.2 // indirect
 	github.com/go-openapi/swag v0.23.0 // indirect
+	github.com/gobwas/glob v0.2.3 // indirect
 	github.com/gogo/protobuf v1.3.2 // indirect
 	github.com/golang-jwt/jwt/v5 v5.2.2 // indirect
 	github.com/golang/protobuf v1.5.4 // indirect