Observe mode: log what would be refused, refuse nothing (closes #78)

SWWAF_MODE (default enforce) takes enforce or observe. In observe mode a
request that SWWAF_DENY_NETS, a ban, the country lists or a rate limit
would refuse is passed to the app, and its log line names that refusal
in would_action. The size and time limits and the 401 still apply. A
broken limit makes no ban; bans read from bans.json are kept but refuse
nothing, and Ledger.Find reads them without counting a refusal in their
notes.

Judgement call: in observe mode a broken limit does not reset the
client's counters, since the reset comes with the ban.
Judgement call: a request a ban would refuse keeps ban_expires.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/proxy/proxy_test.go

@@ -50,6 +50,7 @@ const (
 	clientResponseTimeout   = "SWWAF_CLIENT_RESPONSE_TIMEOUT"
 	upstreamRequestTimeout  = "SWWAF_UPSTREAM_REQUEST_TIMEOUT"
 	upstreamResponseTimeout = "SWWAF_UPSTREAM_RESPONSE_TIMEOUT"
+	mode                    = "SWWAF_MODE"
 	requestMaxBytes         = "SWWAF_REQUEST_MAX_BYTES"
 	responseMaxBytes        = "SWWAF_RESPONSE_MAX_BYTES"
 	trustedProxies          = "SWWAF_TRUSTED_PROXIES"