rproxy and servewaf replace the one-process smallwebwaf (closes #172, closes #165)

`smallwebwaf` with no command now prints the commands and exits with status 2.
The image runs rproxy, or servewaf with SMALLWEBWAF_COMMAND=servewaf. The
passing-on code, its settings and its log fields and metric go. internal/proxy
keeps the checks, answers, reports and own endpoints; its tests run through the
real rproxy. The documents describe the pair.

Judgement call: clients.json keeps token_refused, since state files refuse unknown fields.
Deviation: script/gitea-requests sets SWWAF_LOG_REQUEST_HEADERS, to label requests.
Partially verified: make example-app and make gitea-requests never built the image, as Ubuntu's snapshot service answered 5xx.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/proxy/alerts_test.go

@@ -224,7 +224,9 @@ func startAppWithAlerts(
 
 	addr, out, server, queue := startProxyWithAlerts(t, app.URL, "", clk.Now, settings)
 
-	return &sender{t: t, addr: addr, out: out}, clk, server, queue
+	s := &sender{t: t, addr: addr, serveWAFAddr: server.Addr, out: out}
+
+	return s, clk, server, queue
 }
 
 // banAlert returns the alert for event, raised by a request from client at
@@ -237,6 +239,7 @@ func banAlert(
 		Instance: alertInstance,
 		Time:     raised,
 		Event:    event,
+		Host:     appHost,
 		Client:   netip.MustParseAddr(client),
 		Netblock: ban.Netblock,
 		Reason:   ban.Reason,