trees: show its phases as N of M, with progress, elapsed time and ETA (closes #113)

trees now runs in four phases, open, read, group and write, each under
the progress display scan uses, from the line naming the database to
the summary line. open covers a wait on a busy database. read counts
the records first, as scan's load does, then reads them against that
count; group counts the directories, and write the groups. The display
gains a unit so that each rate names what its phase counts; every scan
phase passes files and prints as before. The tests that pinned trees'
stderr now allow the phase lines between the database line and the
summary.

Judgement call: opening the database is a phase of its own, so there are four phases, not the three the issue sketches.
Judgement call: the count and the read are separate queries, as in scan's load, so during a scan the read can end slightly past or short of its total.

Model: opus-5-5

TODO.md

@@ -29,6 +29,15 @@
 
 # Completed Steps
 
+- `trees` shows its work on stderr in four phases, `[1/4] open`, `[2/4] read`,
+  `[3/4] group` and `[4/4] write`, each with the progress display `scan` uses,
+  from the moment it starts until the summary line: `open` says it is opening
+  the database, also while it waits on a busy one; `read` counts the records,
+  then reads them against that count; `group` counts the directories it groups,
+  and `write` the groups it writes. A display's rate names what its phase
+  counts: files, records, directories or groups. stdout and the summary line are
+  unchanged (2026-10-16, https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/sfdupes/issues/113)
+
 - each `scan` phase's progress display names the phase and its place among the
   five, as `[2/5] walk`, from the moment it starts, with its progress, elapsed
   time and ETA: `load` counts the records first, the walk's total is estimated