Keep modules, lint cache and system packages in check builds (closes #109)

Re-vendors REPO_POLICIES.md and script/cibuild, docker, lint and test
from sneak/prompts at 0653579, on sneak's ruling in
sneak/prompts#130. In the Dockerfile's lint,
test and builder stages, the system-package install and the module
download now come before ARG CACHEBUST, so Docker keeps those layers
until the base image, the install line, go.mod or go.sum changes.
golangci-lint run also mounts golangci-lint's cache. Every step that
lints, tests or compiles still runs on every check build, and go test
keeps -count=1 and -race. README and TODO.md say the same.

Model: opus-5-5

script/test

@@ -3,11 +3,12 @@
 # and this builds that phase alone, on the same terms as script/lint:
 # --target because a phase that is not the last stage is built only when
 # named, and a new CACHEBUST value because a cached test layer is a test
-# that did not run; unlike --no-cache, it keeps Go's build cache. This
-# relies on every stage of the Dockerfile declaring ARG CACHEBUST first;
-# a stage without that line is served from cache on an unchanged tree,
-# with no warning. --output type=cacheonly writes no image, since
-# nothing uses one.
+# that did not run; unlike --no-cache, it keeps the layers above the ARG
+# CACHEBUST line and the cache mounts. This relies on every stage of the
+# Dockerfile declaring ARG CACHEBUST before every step that lints, tests
+# or compiles; a stage without that line is served from cache on an
+# unchanged tree, with no warning. --output type=cacheonly writes no
+# image, since nothing uses one.
 set -eu
 
 SCRIPT_DIR="$(cd "$(dirname "$0")" && pwd -P)"