Implement persistent SQLite scan database

scan now synchronizes a database that survives between runs
(SFDUPES_DATABASE, default /var/lib/sfdupes/db.sqlite) instead of
emitting a stream: operands are resolved to absolute paths, unchanged
files (same size, mtime not newer than recorded) are never re-read, new
and changed files are hashed, and records under the scanned operands
that were not verified this run are deleted; records outside the
operands are untouched. All changes commit in a single transaction, and
WAL journaling with a busy timeout keeps a report run during a cron
scan safe.

report and trees read the database (no positional arguments); the
NUL-terminated stream format, its parser, and the malformed-record
handling are gone. The driver is modernc.org/sqlite (pure Go), so
builds keep cgo disabled.

go.mod

@@ -5,13 +5,22 @@ go 1.25.7
 require (
 	github.com/schollz/progressbar/v3 v3.19.1
 	github.com/spf13/cobra v1.10.2
+	modernc.org/sqlite v1.54.0
 )
 
 require (
+	github.com/dustin/go-humanize v1.0.1 // indirect
+	github.com/google/uuid v1.6.0 // indirect
 	github.com/inconshreveable/mousetrap v1.1.0 // indirect
+	github.com/mattn/go-isatty v0.0.22 // indirect
 	github.com/mitchellh/colorstring v0.0.0-20190213212951-d06e56a500db // indirect
+	github.com/ncruces/go-strftime v1.0.0 // indirect
+	github.com/remyoudompheng/bigfft v0.0.0-20230129092748-24d4a6f8daec // indirect
 	github.com/rivo/uniseg v0.4.7 // indirect
 	github.com/spf13/pflag v1.0.9 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/sys v0.46.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/term v0.44.0 // indirect
+	modernc.org/libc v1.74.1 // indirect
+	modernc.org/mathutil v1.7.1 // indirect
+	modernc.org/memory v1.11.0 // indirect
 )