Implement persistent SQLite scan database

scan now synchronizes a database that survives between runs
(SFDUPES_DATABASE, default /var/lib/sfdupes/db.sqlite) instead of
emitting a stream: operands are resolved to absolute paths, unchanged
files (same size, mtime not newer than recorded) are never re-read, new
and changed files are hashed, and records under the scanned operands
that were not verified this run are deleted; records outside the
operands are untouched. All changes commit in a single transaction, and
WAL journaling with a busy timeout keeps a report run during a cron
scan safe.

report and trees read the database (no positional arguments); the
NUL-terminated stream format, its parser, and the malformed-record
handling are gone. The driver is modernc.org/sqlite (pure Go), so
builds keep cgo disabled.

.gitignore

@@ -28,6 +28,9 @@ node_modules/
 
 # Local scan data
 files.dat
+*.sqlite
+*.sqlite-shm
+*.sqlite-wal
 
 # Agent worktrees
 .claude/worktrees/