dwim: take the scan flags (closes #162)

dwim now takes --workers, -x, --no-default-excludes and --exclude with
the meaning they have for scan. One scanOptions struct, one function
that adds the flags and one PreRunE check serve both commands, and
runScan takes the struct instead of four separate values. The dwim help
lists the default excludes, as the scan help does.

Model: opus-5-5

TODO.md

@@ -29,6 +29,10 @@
 Newest first. An entry ends with its date and its issue or branch, where those
 are known.
 
+- `dwim` takes the `scan` flags `--workers`, `-x`, `--no-default-excludes` and
+  `--exclude`, with the same meaning. Both commands register and check them with
+  the same code (2026-11-11, https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/sfdupes/issues/162)
+
 - New `scan` flag `--exclude PATH`, which may be repeated. The walk neither
   enters nor records an excluded path, and keeps the records below it. An
   operand at or below one is a fatal error (2026-11-11,