scan: show each phase as N of M, with progress, elapsed time and ETA, also while it waits (closes #112)

Every scan display now starts with its phase and its place among the
five, as "[2/5] walk", and always shows the rate, elapsed time and
ETA. load counts the records before reading them, and the content
phase counts what its search finds before checking it, so both have
totals; until then the line says what the phase waits for. The walk's
total is estimated from the records under the operands, with the ETA
unknown past the estimate or without one. Each display draws from its
own goroutine under one mutex: several times a second on a terminal,
every 5 seconds in plain mode. scanPhase holds the phase list.

Judgement call: on a terminal the line is the plain line behind the library's spinner; the bar graphic is gone.
Judgement call: the content phase runs its search query twice, once to count its rows.

Model: opus-5-5

db_test.go

@@ -309,8 +309,10 @@ func TestApplyChangesRoundTrip(t *testing.T) {
 		},
 	}
 
-	err := applyChanges(t.Context(), db, recs, nil,
-		newProgress("update", 2))
+	prog := newProgress(progressParams{label: "update", total: 4})
+	defer prog.finish()
+
+	err := applyChanges(t.Context(), db, recs, nil, prog)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("applyChanges: %v", err)
 	}
@@ -329,7 +331,7 @@ func TestApplyChangesRoundTrip(t *testing.T) {
 	}
 
 	err = applyChanges(t.Context(), db, []scanRec{upd},
-		[]string{"/a/tab\tnew\nline"}, newProgress("update", 2))
+		[]string{"/a/tab\tnew\nline"}, prog)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("applyChanges: %v", err)
 	}
@@ -357,8 +359,10 @@ func TestApplyChangesBatching(t *testing.T) {
 		})
 	}
 
-	err := applyChanges(t.Context(), db, recs, nil,
-		newProgress("update", int64(n)))
+	prog := newProgress(progressParams{label: "update", total: int64(2 * n)})
+	defer prog.finish()
+
+	err := applyChanges(t.Context(), db, recs, nil, prog)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("applyChanges: %v", err)
 	}
@@ -372,8 +376,7 @@ func TestApplyChangesBatching(t *testing.T) {
 		deletes = append(deletes, r.path)
 	}
 
-	err = applyChanges(t.Context(), db, nil, deletes,
-		newProgress("update", int64(n)))
+	err = applyChanges(t.Context(), db, nil, deletes, prog)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("applyChanges deletes: %v", err)
 	}