scan: show each phase as N of M, with progress, elapsed time and ETA, also while it waits (closes #112)

Every scan display now starts with its phase and its place among the
five, as "[2/5] walk", and always shows the rate, elapsed time and
ETA. load counts the records before reading them, and the content
phase counts what its search finds before checking it, so both have
totals; until then the line says what the phase waits for. The walk's
total is estimated from the records under the operands, with the ETA
unknown past the estimate or without one. Each display draws from its
own goroutine under one mutex: several times a second on a terminal,
every 5 seconds in plain mode. scanPhase holds the phase list.

Judgement call: on a terminal the line is the plain line behind the library's spinner; the bar graphic is gone.
Judgement call: the content phase runs its search query twice, once to count its rows.

Model: opus-5-5

TODO.md

@@ -29,6 +29,15 @@
 
 # Completed Steps
 
+- each `scan` phase's progress display names the phase and its place among the
+  five, as `[2/5] walk`, from the moment it starts, with its progress, elapsed
+  time and ETA: `load` counts the records first, the walk's total is estimated
+  from the records under the operands, and the content phase says it is
+  searching the database before it checks the files it found against their
+  count. On a terminal the line is drawn again several times a second; in plain
+  mode it is printed every 5 seconds whether or not an item completed
+  (2026-10-16, https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/sfdupes/issues/112)
+
 - `scan`, `report` and `trees` first print a line on stderr naming the database
   they use, as an absolute path, and whether that path is the default or comes
   from `SFDUPES_DATABASE`; `scan` says when the database is new. README