Resolve PTR names over DNS-over-HTTPS and cache them for the record TTL (closes #238)

`internal/ptr` asks Google, Cloudflare, AdGuard and Quad9 in turn, 2 seconds in all per address. It keeps answers in memory and writes them through to `cache.db`, opened by the new `internal/cachedb`. A reserved address is not sent to the resolvers.

Judgement calls:
- Each resolver gets an equal share of the time left, so a hung resolver does not use up the 2 seconds.
- The negative TTL is the smaller of the SOA minimum and the SOA's own TTL (RFC 2308).
- Names that are not host names are dropped, as `net.Resolver.LookupAddr` does.

Model: opus-5-5

.gitignore

@@ -68,10 +68,12 @@ go.work
 go.work.sum
 
 # Local databases, temporary files and debug output. The daemon's
-# database is db.sqlite, with its -wal and -shm files while it runs.
+# databases are db.sqlite and cache.db, with their -wal and -shm files
+# while it runs.
 *.db
 *.db-journal
 *.db-wal
+*.db-shm
 *.sqlite
 *.sqlite-wal
 *.sqlite-shm