Remove a peer's live routes when its session goes down (closes #56)

RIS sends no withdrawals for the routes of a peer whose BGP session goes
down, so routewatch kept them.

The streamer now hands STATE messages to the prefix handler. They are never
dropped for backpressure: one that finds the queue full is held and queued
first once there is room, and the handler's other messages are dropped
meanwhile, so none overtakes it. Nothing waits. On a down, the prefix
handler drops the peer's pending updates and its next flush deletes all the
peer's live routes before the batch's other writes, keeping the in-memory
counts exact. The live route tables are unique on peer and prefix, which
also finds a peer's routes.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/database/schema.sql

@@ -107,7 +107,10 @@ CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS live_routes_v4 (
 	as_path TEXT NOT NULL, -- JSON array
 	next_hop TEXT NOT NULL,
 	last_updated DATETIME NOT NULL,
-	UNIQUE(prefix, peer_ip) -- a peer has at most one route for a prefix
+	-- A peer has at most one route for a prefix. peer_ip comes first so that
+	-- this key also finds all of a peer's routes, when its BGP session goes
+	-- down; lookups by prefix use the prefix index below.
+	UNIQUE(peer_ip, prefix)
 );
 
 -- IPv6 routing table maintained by PrefixHandler
@@ -120,7 +123,8 @@ CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS live_routes_v6 (
 	as_path TEXT NOT NULL, -- JSON array
 	next_hop TEXT NOT NULL,
 	last_updated DATETIME NOT NULL,
-	UNIQUE(prefix, peer_ip) -- a peer has at most one route for a prefix
+	-- As in live_routes_v4: peer_ip first, to find all of a peer's routes.
+	UNIQUE(peer_ip, prefix)
 );
 
 -- Indexes for live_routes_v4 table