Remove a peer's live routes when its session goes down (closes #56)

RIS sends no withdrawals for the routes of a peer whose BGP session goes
down, so routewatch kept them.

The streamer now hands STATE messages to the prefix handler. They are never
dropped for backpressure: one that finds the queue full is held and queued
first once there is room, and the handler's other messages are dropped
meanwhile, so none overtakes it. Nothing waits. On a down, the prefix
handler drops the peer's pending updates and its next flush deletes all the
peer's live routes before the batch's other writes, keeping the in-memory
counts exact. The live route tables are unique on peer and prefix, which
also finds a peer's routes.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/database/interface.go

@@ -57,6 +57,7 @@ type Store interface {
 	UpsertLiveRouteBatch(routes []*LiveRoute) error
 	DeleteLiveRoute(prefix, peerIP string) error
 	DeleteLiveRouteBatch(deletions []LiveRouteDeletion) error
+	DeleteLiveRoutesOfPeer(peerIP string) (deleted int, err error)
 	GetPrefixDistribution() (ipv4 []PrefixDistribution, ipv6 []PrefixDistribution, err error)
 	GetPrefixDistributionContext(ctx context.Context) (ipv4 []PrefixDistribution, ipv6 []PrefixDistribution, err error)
 	GetLiveRouteCounts() (ipv4Count, ipv6Count int, err error)