Make the tests pass on a busy host (closes #240)

Tests that wait on the real clock failed when the host stalled for a few seconds, although the code was right. Waits for something that should happen are now mostly 15 seconds. Tests whose result depends on a short idle timeout or a production request limit run under `synctest.Test`, on a fake clock, with a fake transport where a real connection would stop that clock. Test code only.

Judgement call: the 5-second waits in three `internal/streamer` tests also became 15 seconds.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/server/server_internal_test.go

@@ -22,10 +22,10 @@ func TestStopClosesTheConnectionOfARequestStillRunning(t *testing.T) {
 		stopDeadline = 100 * time.Millisecond
 		// waitTimeout is how long the test waits for the request to reach
 		// the handler, and then for the client to see its connection closed.
-		waitTimeout = 2 * time.Second
+		waitTimeout = 15 * time.Second
 		// readHeaderTimeout bounds the test server's read of the request
 		// header, as every http.Server must.
-		readHeaderTimeout = time.Second
+		readHeaderTimeout = waitTimeout
 	)
 
 	release := make(chan struct{})