Optimize database batch operations with prepared statements

- Add prepared statements to all batch operations for better performance
- Fix database lock contention by properly batching operations
- Update SQLite settings for extreme performance (8GB cache, sync OFF)
- Add proper error handling for statement closing
- Update tests to properly track batch operations

internal/database/models.go

@@ -77,3 +77,18 @@ type ASInfo struct {
 	LastUpdated time.Time `json:"last_updated"`
 	Age         string    `json:"age"`
 }
+
+// LiveRouteDeletion represents parameters for deleting a live route
+type LiveRouteDeletion struct {
+	Prefix    string
+	OriginASN int
+	PeerIP    string
+}
+
+// PeerUpdate represents parameters for updating a peer
+type PeerUpdate struct {
+	PeerIP      string
+	PeerASN     int
+	MessageType string
+	Timestamp   time.Time
+}