feat: add traditional IRC wire protocol listener (closes #89) (#94)

## Summary

Adds a backward-compatible IRC wire protocol listener (RFC 1459/2812) that allows standard IRC clients (irssi, weechat, hexchat, etc.) to connect directly via TCP.

## Changes

### New package: `internal/ircserver/`

- **`parser.go`** — IRC wire protocol message parser and formatter
- **`server.go`** — TCP listener with Fx lifecycle integration
- **`conn.go`** — Per-connection handler with registration flow, PING/PONG, welcome burst
- **`commands.go`** — All IRC command handlers (JOIN, PART, PRIVMSG, MODE, TOPIC, KICK, WHOIS, etc.)
- **`relay.go`** — Message relay goroutine that delivers queued messages to IRC clients in wire format

### Modified files

- **`internal/config/config.go`** — Added `IRC_LISTEN_ADDR` environment variable
- **`internal/handlers/handlers.go`** — Broker is now injected via Fx (shared with IRC server)
- **`cmd/neoircd/main.go`** — Registered `broker.New`, `ircserver.New` as Fx providers
- **`pkg/irc/commands.go`** — Added `CmdUser` and `CmdInvite` constants
- **`README.md`** — Added IRC Protocol Listener documentation section

### Tests

- Parser unit tests (table-driven, round-trip verification)
- Integration tests: registration, PING/PONG, JOIN, PART, PRIVMSG (channel + DM), NICK change, duplicate nick rejection, LIST, WHOIS, QUIT, TOPIC, MODE, WHO, LUSERS, MOTD, AWAY, PASS, CAP negotiation, unknown commands, pre-registration errors
- Benchmarks for parser and formatter

## Key Design Decisions

- **Optional**: Listener is only started when `IRC_LISTEN_ADDR` is set
- **Shared infrastructure**: Same DB, broker, and session system as HTTP API
- **Full bridge**: IRC ↔ HTTP messages are interoperable
- **No schema changes**: Reuses existing tables
- **Broker as Fx dependency**: Extracted from handlers to be shared

## Supported Commands

Connection: NICK, USER, PASS, QUIT, PING/PONG, CAP
Channels: JOIN, PART, MODE, TOPIC, NAMES, LIST, KICK, INVITE
Messaging: PRIVMSG, NOTICE
Info: WHO, WHOIS, LUSERS, MOTD, AWAY, USERHOST
Operator: OPER

closes #89

Co-authored-by: user <user@Mac.lan guest wan>
Co-authored-by: Jeffrey Paul <sneak@noreply.example.org>
Reviewed-on: sneak/chat#94
Co-authored-by: clawbot <sneak+clawbot@sneak.cloud>
Co-committed-by: clawbot <sneak+clawbot@sneak.cloud>

internal/ircserver/export_test.go

@@ -0,0 +1,49 @@
+package ircserver
+
+import (
+	"context"
+	"log/slog"
+	"net"
+
+	"git.eeqj.de/sneak/neoirc/internal/broker"
+	"git.eeqj.de/sneak/neoirc/internal/config"
+	"git.eeqj.de/sneak/neoirc/internal/db"
+	"git.eeqj.de/sneak/neoirc/internal/service"
+)
+
+// NewTestServer creates a Server suitable for testing.
+// The caller must call Stop() when finished.
+func NewTestServer(
+	log *slog.Logger,
+	cfg *config.Config,
+	database *db.Database,
+	brk *broker.Broker,
+) *Server {
+	svc := service.NewTestService(
+		database, brk, cfg, log,
+	)
+
+	return &Server{ //nolint:exhaustruct
+		log:      log,
+		cfg:      cfg,
+		database: database,
+		brk:      brk,
+		svc:      svc,
+		conns:    make(map[*Conn]struct{}),
+	}
+}
+
+// Start exposes the unexported start method for tests.
+func (s *Server) Start(addr string) error {
+	return s.start(context.Background(), addr)
+}
+
+// Stop exposes the unexported stop method for tests.
+func (s *Server) Stop() {
+	s.stop()
+}
+
+// Listener returns the server's net.Listener for tests.
+func (s *Server) Listener() net.Listener {
+	return s.listener
+}