README child-mnemonic vector and host-key note; ssh install refuses a ~/.ssh it cannot enter (closes #51)

The README gains the child mnemonic that `keyfunc mnemonic` prints for
the abandon ... about mnemonic at index 0, asserted by the README
vectors test, and says that `ssh install` needs the host key already
known, with the two ways round it.

`ssh install` now also lists `.ssh/.` before fetching. A `.ssh` that can
be read but not entered lists as empty, so the fetch read it as holding
no file and tried an upload that could only fail. The listing of
`.ssh/.` fails instead, and the tool refuses before any upload, saying
the directory cannot be entered. The test that failed the put with a
file where `.ssh` belongs now uses a `.ssh` of mode 500.

Model: opus-5-5

internal/cli/ssh/install_test.go

@@ -80,8 +80,11 @@ func TestAbsenceIsReadOnlyFromWhatSFTPSaidAboutAuthorizedKeys(t *testing.T) {
 
 // TestTheDirectoryIsReadAsAbsentOnlyFromTheListingSayingSo holds the
 // wordings the OpenSSH client was seen to use when a listing fails: a
-// directory it cannot find is reported one way, and one it cannot enter
-// another, and only the first is read as a host with no .ssh yet.
+// directory it cannot find is reported one way, and one it cannot read
+// another, and only the first is read as a host with no .ssh yet. A
+// .ssh that can be read but not entered lists as empty, and the
+// listing of .ssh/. that follows reports that path, not .ssh, as not
+// found.
 func TestTheDirectoryIsReadAsAbsentOnlyFromTheListingSayingSo(t *testing.T) {
 	t.Parallel()
 
@@ -102,11 +105,16 @@ func TestTheDirectoryIsReadAsAbsentOnlyFromTheListingSayingSo(t *testing.T) {
 				`Can't ls: "/home/someone/.ssh" not found` + "\n",
 			want: true,
 		},
-		"the directory is there and cannot be entered": {
+		"the directory is there and cannot be read": {
 			said: listed +
 				`remote readdir("/home/someone/.ssh/"): Permission denied` + "\n",
 			want: false,
 		},
+		"the directory is there and cannot be entered": {
+			said: listed + "sftp> ls -1 .ssh/.\n" +
+				`Can't ls: "/home/someone/.ssh/." not found` + "\n",
+			want: false,
+		},
 		"some other directory is not there": {
 			said: listed + `Can't ls: "/home/someone/.config" not found` + "\n",
 			want: false,
@@ -122,7 +130,7 @@ func TestTheDirectoryIsReadAsAbsentOnlyFromTheListingSayingSo(t *testing.T) {
 		t.Run(name, func(t *testing.T) {
 			t.Parallel()
 
-			if directoryAbsent(listing.said) != listing.want {
+			if listingNotFound(listing.said, directory) != listing.want {
 				t.Errorf(
 					"read as absent: %t, wanted %t, from:\n%s",
 					!listing.want, listing.want, listing.said,