notify: drain in-flight deliveries at shutdown (closes #106)

Shutdown waits for deliveries already in flight instead of dropping them.

Reviewed and green; squashed to next by the dispatcher, dnswatcher having no manager.

Model: opus-5

internal/notify/retry.go

@@ -2,6 +2,7 @@ package notify
 
 import (
 	"context"
+	"fmt"
 	"math"
 	"math/rand/v2"
 	"time"
@@ -121,6 +122,14 @@ func (svc *Service) deliverWithRetry(
 		select {
 		case <-ctx.Done():
 			return ctx.Err()
+		case <-svc.abandon:
+			// Shutdown drained past its deadline; stop
+			// sleeping rather than outlive the process.
+			// A nil channel (Service built without a
+			// constructor) simply never fires.
+			return fmt.Errorf(
+				"%w: %s", ErrDeliveryAbandoned, endpoint,
+			)
 		case <-svc.sleepFunc(delay):
 		}
 	}