middleware: take the client address from the right of X-Forwarded-For (closes #181)

realIP took the first X-Forwarded-For entry, which the client itself
can write, so behind a proxy that appends to the header a client chose
the address dnswatcher logs and the /metrics rate limit counts. It now
walks the entries from the right past trusted proxies, using the
existing trusted-proxy check, and takes the first that is not one; the
leftmost when all are. All X-Forwarded-For header lines are read as one
list, since a proxy may add its own line instead of appending to the
client's. An empty entry where the client address belongs falls back
to the peer address, as an empty first entry did before. X-Real-IP is
unchanged.

Model: opus-5-5

TODO.md

@@ -20,6 +20,8 @@ https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/dnswatcher/issues/104
 
 # Completed Steps
 
+- 2026-10-01: the client address from `X-Forwarded-For` is the last entry that
+  is not a trusted proxy, not the first, which the client sets (closes #181).
 - 2026-10-01: a `DNSWATCHER_DNS_INTERVAL` or `DNSWATCHER_TLS_INTERVAL` that is
   not a positive duration stops startup; empty means the default (closes #177).
 - 2026-10-01: `/metrics` allows each client address 30 requests a minute,