notify: release held deliveries so shutdown tests fail, not hang (closes #176)

Two shutdown tests hold a delivery inside the test server's handler and
release it from a timer. The deferred timer stop ran before the server
was closed, so a drain that returned early left the handler blocked and
the server's close waited on it until the package timed out. Each test
now defers a release, guarded so the timer and the defer can both call
it, ahead of closing the server. The watchdog comment no longer names a
30-second timeout the test script does not use.

Model: opus-5-5

TODO.md

@@ -20,6 +20,8 @@ https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/dnswatcher/issues/104
 
 # Completed Steps
 
+- 2026-10-01: two notify shutdown tests always release the delivery they hold,
+  so a drain that returns early fails them instead of hanging (closes #176).
 - 2026-10-01: `TODO.md` brought up to date: open issues listed by URL, every
   Completed Steps entry cut to at most two lines (closes #146).
 - 2026-10-01: wildcard CORS now applies only to the public routes, not to
@@ -101,8 +103,6 @@ https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/dnswatcher/issues/104
 - `goimports` in `make fmt-check`, Markdown formatting:
   https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/dnswatcher/issues/119
 - final state save at shutdown: https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/dnswatcher/issues/114
-- `internal/notify` shutdown tests hang when a drain returns early:
-  https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/dnswatcher/issues/176
 - README accuracy sweep: https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/dnswatcher/issues/108
 - README sections required by policy:
   https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/dnswatcher/issues/173