resolver: never resend a refused query asking for recursion (closes #206)

queryDNS resent a query that a server refused, this time asking for
recursion, so on a network that intercepts DNS the answers could come
from a recursive resolver without anyone knowing. A refusal is now only
a refusal, and the server is passed over for the next.

When every server of a zone refuses, the error says so. When every root
server refuses, the error is ErrIntercepted: root servers refuse no
query, so something on the network is answering in their place.
FindAuthoritativeNameservers stops at that error instead of trying each
parent name, so the watcher's log line says it.

Model: opus-5-5

TODO.md

@@ -19,6 +19,8 @@ trial run of the finished image: https://git.eeqj.de/sneak/dnswatcher/issues/149
 
 # Completed Steps
 
+- 2026-10-02: a query a server refuses is not resent asking for recursion, and
+  every root server refusing is reported as DNS interception (closes #206).
 - 2026-10-01: a certificate within the expiry warning period is warned about on
   every TLS check, where some checks used to skip it at random (closes #204).
 - 2026-10-01: a domain's NS set is its delegation from the parent zone's